Criticisms of "The Body Keeps the Score"

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155 points | by adityaathalye 3 hours ago ago

151 comments

  • softwaredoug 2 hours ago

    This article (and author) seems to be something of a trauma-skeptic, which doesn't seem to agree with mainstream science (setting aside Body Keeps the Score)

    > That is, trauma doesn’t lead to dysfunction or abnormal brain function, physiology or hormonal regulation. Rather, an unhealthy person may be more susceptible to trauma.

    What has been documented about Adverse Childhood Experiences doesn’t agree with this. There is copious evidence that the presence of ACEs, independent of other factors, leads to poor health outcomes [1]

    It's also well known that past trauma predisposes you to future trauma [2]

    There's also data indicating CPTSD, PTSD, and Borderline are distinct disorders [3]

    1 - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8882933/ https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s...

    2 - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5858954/

    3 - https://www.psychiatrypodcast.com/psychiatry-psychotherapy-p...

    • jasonfarnon an hour ago

      None of these seems to be making a causal claim, did I miss something? The linked article is saying causation runs in the opposite direction.

      • softwaredoug 4 minutes ago

        The only studies we have are long term longitudinal. IE this one:

        > After adjustment for confounding, there were statistically significant positive associations for people reporting four or more ACEs relative to those reporting no ACEs, and this was true for all chronic diseases except hypertension.

        https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8462987

        A twin study would be about as close as we could get to a randomized control trial:

        https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/...

        I'm willing to use the term "cause" here, given the copious amount of studies controlling for other confounders. That's the best we can do given there's no ethical way to run a randomized control trial.

    • taeric an hour ago

      I think there is a bit of a crowd that is pushing the idea that you can make events worse by telling people that they are forever scarred from them? That is, yes, some trauma sticks with you. History shows people are also very resilient at moving on from trauma. Kind of have to be, so that we aren't devastated when we ultimately do lose some family.

      Would be like saying you should hammer people on how much grieve they must be feeling because they lost a dog. Now, nor should you also scold people for feeling said grief. It is very personal and hard to really know what experience someone will have until they have it.

      • crazygringo 28 minutes ago

        > History shows people are also very resilient at moving on from trauma.

        That's the "classical" mindset that modern empirical studies are refuting.

        Actually, no, people are often not very resilient at all in moving on from trauma. They suffer greatly, they traumatize others, and it affects their health.

      • marcelr an hour ago

        more information is better if it’s also provided with the context of how to heal.

        > History shows people are also very resilient at moving on from trauma

        i’m extremely skeptical that people move on

        they suppress, they survive, but without deep understanding its impossible to say move on

        you can be ignorant and survive, or face reality and climb the deeply uphill battle of real growth.

        of course you can be paralyzed by it, but no one is advocating for that as treatment

        • zdragnar an hour ago

          It really depends on the person.

          I know someone who grew up in rough neighborhoods, has been in fights, been stabbed, divorced alcoholic father and drug using mother, and yet got a master's degree, a fulfilling career, marriage and family.

          I know someone else who happened to be in a bank when it was robbed, and has spent years struggling to hold a steady job because the anxiety developed from the experience has persisted. Later divorced and become a poster child for making bad decisions.

          The latter has gone to therapy, the former didn't. Small sample size, don't draw any conclusions other than everyone is different, and beware anyone proclaiming universal truths in psychology.

        • kulahan 22 minutes ago

          People who face reality and climb towards real growth are also suppressing their negative emotions, surviving, and moving on. Children are specifically different from adults because they don't have any emotional regulation. They just live fully in whatever emotion smacks them in the gut.

          Just because you've got a scar doesn't mean it's bad, nor does it mean you haven't moved on if you haven't spent 6 months staring at the healing process. Some people heal quicker, some heal better, some heal slower, some heal worse. Like pretty much everything in biology, it's something of a spectrum.

        • taeric an hour ago

          I mean... depends on the trauma? Do you consider it traumatic to lose a pet? What is the difference between survival and moving on? What sort of growth would you expect there?

  • amyamyamy2 2 hours ago

    I really disliked The Body Keeps the Score. But at the same time, I think it's probably useful for people who have been traumatized to make sense of their experiences.

    I also think that for a traumatized person, it probably doesn't make that much of a difference whether or not their body is different because of the trauma, or they're traumatized because of their body - they are experiencing these reactions and trauma responses, and they're looking for a solution. Somatic experiences might help them.

    To be honest, reading the book was more helpful than critiquing whether or not my testosterone levels were too low as a 11-year-old, or if I had elevated inflammation because of my diet. Perhaps I'm biased.

    • biomcgary 21 minutes ago

      The mind-body link is too important to get the causality wrong and The Body Keeps Score is an ideology where the causality only goes one way.

      I have a cousin that had frequent, overwhelming anxiety attacks. She started eating breakfast consistently and the anxiety disappeared at the same time. Anxiety is strongly linked to gut activity, so the temporal correlation is a smoking gun, even if not dispositive.

      For her, "understanding past trauma" was irrelevant to the solution.

    • phkahler 2 hours ago

      >> I also think that for a traumatized person, it probably doesn't make that much of a difference whether or not their body is different because of the trauma, or they're traumatized because of their body - they are experiencing these reactions and trauma responses, and they're looking for a solution.

      I agree. Like diets, whatever works for you is the "right" answer. At lot of psychological theory can be thought of as just a model to help you make changes regardless of the physical validity of the model.

      • wrs 25 minutes ago

        Indeed, if it works for you, great. What’s at issue here is whether you put the book that worked for you in the “science” section or the “fiction” section of the bookstore.

    • Aurornis an hour ago

      > But at the same time, I think it's probably useful for people who have been traumatized to make sense of their experiences.

      The problem I'm seeing more and more is that these pop culture trauma books are targeted at the widest audience possible. These authors push trauma as the explanation for everything, so people seeking self-help read these books and assume that trauma must be at the root of the problem they're seeking.

      For some people, this is true. Identifying and addressing trauma is helpful.

      Many conditions can occur without a traumatic root or trigger, though. For people trying to understand and improve their condition, falling into one of these trauma books sends them down a path of trying to force their problem to fit the trauma mold so they can use the trauma tools.

      I've written on HN before about how one of the more famous trauma influencers and frequent podcast guests does this (I'm not going to name him because it triggers reactive downvotes and attacks from his fans and I don't want to debate that): He starts searching for "trauma" in his patients' past to use as a starting point for therapy. If he can't find anything he goes back further and further, until arriving at birth. Birth, he claims, is a deeply traumatic experience that can cause issues later in life like relationship problems, attention issues at work, and so on. In this way, everyone who has ever existed now qualifies for trauma therapy because everyone was born, and therefore everyone has trauma that might explain all of their problems in this world.

      The conflict of interest is obvious: Once they get a taste of book sales, podcast appearances, or social media fame it becomes against their best interests to narrowly define their practice to classic textbook trauma. So to maximize their appeal, they redefine trauma to be something much simpler such that everyone qualifies (to buy their book). This does a disservice to people with PTSD and really dilutes the concept of these psychiatric terms.

    • j45 2 hours ago

      This is an interesting point.

      Every book doesn't have to be for everyone universally. It's kind of binary to where we might not catch ourselves thinking that way.

      It could work for a specific group of people who might have an outsized positive experience and review of it.

  • claytonwramsey 2 hours ago

    I wasn't very impressed by the reporting quality in this article, but it seems as though there are some other reviewers of the book were much more thorough in their critique. Emi Nietfeld writing for Mother Jones has more detail and actually contacted some experts for comment: https://www.motherjones.com/media/2024/12/trauma-body-keeps-...

  • the_sleaze_ 2 hours ago

    > Book falls apart

    My claim: there is no psychiatric body of work that is impervious to criticism. Not a single piece of psychological science is 100% true.

    Drugs work but often don't. Therapies work but often don't. Alice's research falls apart under Bob's scrutiny.

    It's a soft science, it is what it is.

    • AmbroseBierce 2 hours ago

      There is also a strong likelihood that psychiatric findings get outdated quickly given the rapid evolution of culture, tech, communication and society in general, just 30 years ago internet was just for a few nerds and tech enthusiasts, just 3 years ago you couldn't make the computer realistically pretend to be your lover over chat messages, the landscape in which psychology has to exist that has little to do with it is so ever changing that maybe it was always bit silly to expect it to be a hard science.

    • luqtas 2 hours ago

      we have trouble defining and detecting when someone is in a flow state. or what parts of the brain are involved in grit. heck we are even tipping the begginings on how chronic pain is processed in our brain. if some drug has a greater validity than a placebo, then it's something

      now a guy claiming direct correlation with trauma based on what you went through for some seconds/minutes right after you born? feels like some Freud and their charlatans type of shit not "soft science"

    • mbesto 2 hours ago

      > My claim: there is no psychiatric body of work that is impervious to criticism.

      Which makes these books all the more dangerous because the authors are overly confident about their conclusions and hence the attraction (which leads to book sales). When the unexplainable suddenly becomes explainable, the money rolls in.

    • DuperPower 2 hours ago

      soft science you say but the person better not commit suicide or starts working soon and gets better soon. The problem with psiquiatra is that there is the real biological diagnosis, the pseudo diagnosis (neurotic versión of the biological og diagnosis), the intentional fake diagnosis and the not intentional but still fake diagnosis, thats why DSM is not for regular people even if they can read the words the real clinical meaning is almost always different from what non clinical people think It is

    • the_af 2 hours ago

      I think the critique is fundamentally different from saying "it's soft science".

      It's saying "it's bad research, misquoting experts and references, drawing sloppy conclusions aimed at a lay audience".

      You can do psychology and psychiatry better than that, even if acknowledging they are not hard science.

      There's no excuse for being sloppy or outright fraudulent.

    • shkkmo 2 hours ago

      > there is no psychiatric body of work that is impervious to criticism. Not a single piece of psychological science is 100% true.

      The scientific process is rarely perfect and levels of average levels of rigour vary between disciplines.

      However, there are quite significantly varying levels of quality and rigour in psychological studies. Your criticism seems framed to ignore this and groups the charlatans in with the actuap scientists.

    • throw4847285 2 hours ago

      There is always somebody, especially on HN, who will comment on an article debunking pop psychology, "Well that makes sense because it's all bullshit."

      I understand there is a bias towards the hard sciences here (which is somewhat odd, because the vast majority of commenters here do not practice any hard science). But I think there is extra skepticism of psychiatry and psychology (which get lumped together), and I wonder why that might be.

      Well, I have a theory, but it relies on psychology and it isn't very charitable.

      • the_sleaze_ 2 hours ago

        All models are wrong. Some are useful.

      • lotsofpulp 2 hours ago

        Science involves doing experiments, collecting data, and testing hypotheses, i.e. claims are falsifiable.

        We don't have the technology to collect the necessary data to be able to test hypotheses for psychiatric and psychological phenomenoms, and even many other non brain related medical claims about the human body.

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Replication_crisis

        Seems pretty reasonable to take claims about unverifiable subjects with a grain of salt.

        • jimnotgym an hour ago

          It is fine to be a sceptic.

          However, if you were unlucky enough to suffer with a completely debilitating mental illness, and all you have to treat it are a series of therapies that appear to work for some people, would you not try them?

          Trauma therapies like EMDR and CBT can save or transform your life. Maybe they work no better than crystal healing or prayers for some people, but if your life was derailed I bet you would try anything...

        • antisthenes 2 hours ago

          I only skimmed the wikipedia article, but it seems like it is missing emphasis on the biggest problem in soft sciences like psychology - the fact that a huge chunk of their data comes from self-reporting by subjects.

          It's the equivalent of basing nutrition science on a Pew poll where people self-report their favorite food.

          Sure, it's useful to know people's general preferences sometimes, but for science that data is junk.

    • gr__or 2 hours ago

      I'd say the article makes a pretty explicit case for why the general thesis of the book does not hold, which makes your comment stand out as comparatively superficial whataboutism

    • danaris 2 hours ago

      It's not a soft science.

      The problem is that too many people believe you can do research on one group of people, and generalize that universally to all humans, when in fact, the variation in every population of humans is wide enough that you can't say for certain that a given treatment will work for a given set of symptoms—not because the treatments are bad, but because there are differences both in the causes of the same symptoms, and in the workings of the body & brain, between different people.

      This doesn't make psychology/psychiatry/psychopharmacology a "soft science"; it just makes it a science that is still in its infancy. Once we have a better understanding of both the various underlying neurological/physical (and, for some, even gastrointestinal, given recent research showing that gut microbiota can affect the mood and brain) causes of various psychological symptoms, and the physical and neurological variations between people, it will be much easier to see, for instance, "ah, we shouldn't use Lorazepam for this patient, because their anxiety is caused by this which is much better treated by CBT and CBD, rather than that which Lorazepam directly addresses".

    • blobbers 2 hours ago

      Usually if you have to add 'science' to a term its not science.

      • jdiff 2 hours ago

        We do that incredibly often just to refer to only one part of an incredibly broad concept of "science." Sometimes they get unique terms like "physics" or "chemistry," but not always. This is not a rule that can accurately be applied to all terms matching the pattern "____ science."

        • ternaryoperator 2 hours ago

          Wait…so you’re saying computer science isn’t science? /s

  • neom 2 hours ago

    From my understanding of some of the most recent research, the body probably does "keep score" - but how that happens and who is predisposed to how much "scoring", it very poorly understood: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11449801/ / https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S02785... / https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23768722/

  • nostrademons an hour ago

    So I had a therapist give me EMDR about 5 years ago for little-T trauma. I have no idea whether EMDR is scientifically back or not or whether trauma is overdiagnosed, I just know it worked for me.

    But what she said about the therapy (since I always want to know how everything works) is that trauma is basically emotional memory. Y’know how you might have a visual memory about how a certain place looked like when you visited, or sensual memory of how a favorite food tasted, or muscle memory for how to ride a bike, or cognitive memory of how to solve a math problem? The same thing happens with emotions - they get stored away in the brain’s memory centers and can intrude on your present at some later time.

    But emotion, by definition, is “that which causes motion”. So if you have a bunch of traumatic memories (oftentimes not even with visual or cognitive components - mine didn’t have them), those emotions continue to influence how you behave for years afterwards. That’s what memory is.

    And the point of EMDR is that for some unknown reason, the act of focusing your eyes across the parts of your visual field controlled by different hemispheres forces those emotional memories back into consciousness, where you can then recast and retrigger them based on present-day experience. It literally is implanting false memories - that’s the point - but you want false memory of the event because the true emotional memory is no longer serving you well in the present.

    • neom an hour ago

      I've had pretty brutal body pain my whole adult life, I saw a lot of different flavours of skelatalmuscular therapy type folks over the years, you name it, I've had it. Around 6/7 years ago I was under a lot of stress with work, some particularly intense interpersonal business stuff to work through and my body pain was at an all time high. I booked an appointment at a chiropractor near my office first thing in the morning the next day, the guy went to adjust me and then told me that I needed acupuncture first. I told him no because every time I have acupuncture I sob uncontrollably, not from pain, just from reasons I didn't understand, but that the person usually had to stop. He said exactly, I need acupuncture first. He took me to another room in his office, lights out, and stuck some needles in me, no crying, he said he needed to get me crying, moved needles around, found a spot, emotions exploded, crying. He moved the needle, more crying, deeper, deeper crying, he kept moving the needle till I thought all the needles would burst out of me from how deeply I wanted to cry but he told me not to be scared and I thought I was going to die. Anyway, he left me alone in that room for about 35 minutes while I wailed, I mean, awkwardly wailed. After everything started to calm inside me, I slowly started to be able to think again, and the thought that was there was the memory of the guy who sexually abused me when I was a kid, moving his hand off my hip. A bunch of muscles I didn't even know existed let go, and that was the best adjustment I've ever had by a mile. It was actually this experience that lead me to reading the body keeps score (Connie Zweig is good also if this kinda stuff interests you).

      • crazygringo 22 minutes ago

        Thanks for sharing. And yes, once you experience something like that, you don't even need scientific evidence that the body keeps the score -- you've experienced it. You know it the same way you know the sky is blue.

        And that's what's frustrating when people want to invalidate the whole thing. They just don't know -- they haven't experienced anything like it. But they act like they do know.

        Now obviously, scientific validation of these things is important to better understand causes, mechanisms, and healing methods.

        But when people claim that the body doesn't store trauma as muscular tension, it's just frustrating because it feels like willful ignorance. Whether they don't know the stories of millions of people like yourself, or choose not to believe them.

  • pvillano 17 minutes ago

    Pop-trauma allows people to continue to believe "dreams can be achieved through hard work" while not blaming themselves for not achieving their dreams.

    The reason I'm not living the dream could be that it's impossible, or I haven't tried hard enough. I don't want to believe either of those. I'd rather believe that something happened to me in my past that rewired my brain to stifle my full potential. Then I could still hope to someday achieve my dreams, while not doing anything to progress towards them.

    It's not popular because it's right. It's popular because it's so, so appealing.

  • jamestimmins 2 hours ago

    I've been playing with the hypothesis that if information is controversial/surprising and targeted at laypeople, it is almost guaranteed to be misleading or outright false.

    The only way to convincingly make the case for new information is with pretty rigorous technical arguments, which is fundamentally at odds with a lay audience. If someone has those rigorous technical arguments, they'd be making them in journals to a technical audience, and the results would slowly become consensus.

    Obvi there are counter-examples, but as a general rule I think this is far more true than not. Which is why if you learn from Forbes that someone is close to cracking AGI, you can almost outright assume this is untrue.

    • walkabout 2 hours ago

      One of a couple varieties of books covered by the If Books Could Kill podcast is this category, the Surprising Truth That Explains Many Things type.

      They do indeed seem to almost always be bullshit, including the very-popular ones (and including ones that get popular among crowds like HN)

      • mm263 an hour ago

        Michael Hobbes, host of IBCK is guilty of those inaccuracies too. Here's him being fact checked regarding claims in the Maintenance Phase podcast: https://spurioussemicolon.substack.com/

        • walkabout an hour ago

          Yeah, I’ve seen those criticisms before and been convinced-enough that it’s contributed to my not bothering with that podcast. IBCK has been accurate enough when they’ve covered books I’m familiar with that I’m less worried about that being a problem with that show (though I’m sure they do sometimes get things wrong)

    • hathawsh 2 hours ago

      I think you're headed in a helpful direction, but I'm looking for ways to narrow the phenomenon a little more. For example, yesterday I heard from my mom, who is not into technical things, that a lot of the Internet was down. She had heard it on the news. I didn't believe it at first because that information was surprising and clearly targeted at laypeople, but soon I learned it was true: AWS us-east-1 had major issues. So my doubt was unfounded. I'd like my doubts to be more accurate.

      • hnuser123456 2 hours ago

        So many things are actually concentrated on the "cloud" providers now that significant chunks of "the internet" can all go down at the same time for everyone in a way that was supposed to be impossible with the many-fault-tolerant mindset the internet was originally engineered with. Laypeople don't need to understand any technical topics to understand "a bunch of websites/apps broke for everyone on Sunday". Some are even noting that this is happing more often and affecting more apps at once.

        anyways, more on topic with TFA, of course lots of people are looking for excuses for why they aren't what they want to be, and it sounds like this book flips the causation, so that people can say e.g. "I was perfectly healthy until I went through some difficult stuff and now I'm disabled" rather than much more sober but accurate "I was born with some relative weaknesses that make things more difficult for me than others." It looks like he keeps trying to claim that bad experiences leave reliably measurable marks in some way but it simply never holds to the claimed reliability under scrutiny.

        Of course, knowing exactly what specific "weaknesses" one actually has compared to a statistical average is the hard part, and jumping to conclusions in that area is just as much playing with fire.

        Someone could write a book about "bad experiences give you bad memories, which can bring down your mood when you remember them and demotivate you", but everyone already knows that, and leaving it at that doesn't give the reader the feeling of understanding why they feel less than whole.

      • parliament32 2 hours ago

        But it's not really true, is it? "The Internet", as in the network, was doing just fine. A large number of services that chose to build their business on the back of another were down, of course, but "a lot of the internet is down" is different than "a lot of websites are down".

        If, say, Level 3 and Tata and Telia had a simultaneous outage, that would qualify for "a lot of the internet is down".

      • Daishiman 2 hours ago

        The statement "most of the internet seems to be down" is somewhat easy to verify without too much research.

        Complex statements requiring lots of specialist knowledge available to very few human beings that are difficult to disprove is where the challenge lies.

      • hooch 2 hours ago

        Actually the internet was not down at all. It was perfectly up.

    • dlcarrier 28 minutes ago
    • triMichael 2 hours ago

      I agree, and one place I've observed this is in quantum physics. The double slit experiment is an experiment where you shine light through two slits, and instead of the expected two bands, it makes a wave-like interference pattern. This single experiment changed how we view all of physics. However, nearly every source targeted at laypeople claims that there is a variation where you can put a detector on one of the slits and it will show two bands. This is false.

      One clue is that these claims never detail on what this "detector" is. There are various types of detectors, and instead of showing a two band pattern they show a single slit interference pattern. By not giving specifics, the claim becomes much harder to disprove. This may not be malicious though, as the source of the faulty claim is likely the miscommunication of a thought experiment proposed by Einstein. Einstein proved by thought experiment that any detector couldn't show an interference pattern, which is easily twisted into the incorrect claim that it does show the two band pattern that people initially expected.

      Even with all that, it's simply hard to refute. Like you said, it requires rigorous technical arguments, specifically as the faulty claim didn't specify what kind of detector they use. So the layperson has to choose between <some detector makes shape you'd expect> and <multiple complex existing detectors makes different shape>.

      In the end, to a layperson, it wouldn't even seem to be all that important. And yet, almost all of the misunderstandings people have about quantum physics come from this one faulty claim. This claim makes it seem like some objects have quantum behavior, and some don't, and that you can change an object from quantum to non-quantum by detecting it. When in reality, all objects have quantum behavior, we just don't usually notice it.

    • vharuck an hour ago

      >I've been playing with the hypothesis that if information is controversial/surprising and targeted at laypeople, it is almost guaranteed to be misleading or outright false.

      Don't forget the red flag of "Makes me feel better about myself or my situation." Especially if it implies one's superiority over others.

      I've often had the experience of reading an article and thinking, "This says people with quality X are, against common sense, actually better at Y. Hey, I have quality X! Aw, rats. This is probably bunk and I'm too flattered to see the errors."

    • taeric 2 hours ago

      What sucks is when the information wasn't necessarily misleading, but still overwhelmingly misleads people.

    • antisthenes 2 hours ago

      Now you understand where the "Wise man under the mountain" trope comes from.

      Beside the burden of knowledge and understanding, there is an even higher burden of bringing your knowledge to the laypeople, which is the most thankless, dangerous and tedious undertaking possible.

      Yet it is also the most noble, as it drives civilization forward.

      In many cases it's insurmountable.

  • kulahan 16 minutes ago

    Kind of a silly ending to the article.

    >I think Bessel van der Kolk and Gabor Mate’s heavy handed trauma narrative is [bad]

    followed immediately by

    >However if they ‘treat’ their trauma with things like yoga, meditation, psychedelics and have some benefits, it’s very likely they would have had the benefits regardless of whether they viewed it as some sort of trauma treatment or not.

    I suppose the author has never heard of placebo effects? Talk about a heavy-handed narrative.

    Author also seems to be skeptical of the idea that stress and inflammation can be a major cause of disease in the body. I might just be reading into things, but if that's an accurate assessment on my part, it's wildly inaccurate.

  • ergonaught 2 hours ago

    The book has a lot of flaws. The trauma industry that's grown up around it and similar work has a lot of flaws. The post has a lot of flaws.

    They're all quite confident, though.

    • binoct 2 hours ago

      Best comment by far. The post suffers from making good points about the lack of rigor and narrative nature of the book, but then does exactly the same thing to claim the opposite conclusion the book makes.

    • steve_adams_86 an hour ago

      I agree.

      As I read this I kept thinking that it seemed too skeptical to be rationally critical. Which isn't necessarily an improvement over the book.

      My intuition (I know, that isn't better than the book or this post) is that there's truth in both places, and we'd ultimately land somewhere in the middle if we had access to the truth.

      This touches on the nature vs nurture problem, wherein there never seems to be a clear victor and the answer seems to be that both play a role depending on what you're measuring. It's also very difficult to say how the chicken and egg scenario unravels, since we don't know what's the chicken and what's the egg, so to speak. The author seems to think they know—confidently as you mentioned—but it's abundantly murky to me.

      I suppose we need confident people pushing in all directions to help us look more deeply in places and ways we otherwise might not. But wow, it gets tiring to see such unapologetic bias in scientific contexts. I admittedly stopped reading just passed the half way point and should probably keep most of my opinions about it to myself.

  • riazrizvi 2 hours ago

    Agreed. I recently started a very physical job after decades of laptop work. Your personality changes quick, anxiety levels etc, as your body adapts. This is at 54 after 3 decades as an IC writing software. Lifestyle is by far the biggest driver, the body’s record is read-write memory rather than write-once.

    • cshimmin 2 hours ago

      Was this after you and two zany friends made a scheme to divert a fraction of a penny from each of your employer's transactions into a bank account that you control? And then you gave it all back but the building burned down and Milton made off with the cash?

    • rsyring 2 hours ago

      What job did you switch to? Are you happy with the change?

      • riazrizvi an hour ago

        Server in a busy restaurant- and it’s more about basing my future on dual incomes for better financial stability, as well as lifestyle. I don’t need evening time at home anymore, I’m done chasing the fantasy relationship.

    • eastbound 2 hours ago

      Took a gap year at 26, farming. I’m not surprised that I got superlean. But for the first time since I was 13, I didn’t eat my words. My stress went down, but I could finally spell out words with full vowels (I usually just say the consonants). I’m also generally low self-esteem, low recognition, low hope, and for a short time I was easily dating, hopeful and it was easy to take strong decisions.

    • bendigedig 2 hours ago

      Your one piece of anecdata is not proof of anything at the population level.

      Please stop with the fallacy that what appears to be true for you is also true for everyone else.

      edit: I weep for the ignorance present here. I may be done with HN.

      • cwmoore 2 hours ago

        Population level proof is, at best, a model which fails every minority, including individuals. Which is arguably still useful, but only a different fallacy.

        • bendigedig 2 hours ago

          Yeah, but then the comment was making sweepingly generalised statements based off personal experiences.

          • riazrizvi an hour ago

            I doubt we agree on what the word lifestyle means.

      • cwmoore an hour ago

        GP got a different job and had an experience? What are you weeping for?

  • taeric 2 hours ago

    I am grateful that I had not, in fact, heard of this book. I would like to say I would have rejected the idea, but I'm not certain. And yeah, these criticisms are pretty solid.

  • dacox 2 hours ago

    There is a podcast, Memory Hole, about the recovered memory movement. There is a lengthy section about this book and the people behind it (not positive)

  • yrcyrc 2 hours ago

    Read it a few years back and found some answers. Generational trauma does exists I believe. As for the article I think it claimed the whole theory was BS without much backing arguments

    • nearbuy an hour ago

      The article goes through and refutes 25(!) claims from the book. I'm not sure how many more backing arguments you could possibly want from a blog post.

  • incomingpain 22 minutes ago

    I love the book; I found it immensely useful personally for trauma.

    I have discussed the book with various medical authorities. Not a single one disagreed or was negative towards it.

  • blurbleblurble 2 hours ago

    How is this article any better?

  • anechouapechou 2 hours ago

    Anecdotal, but recently I've done a complete 180 on:

    - My diet (Mediterranean), with absolutely zero processed foods.

    - Sleep (red light on evenings, no screens 1 hour before sleep).

    - Daily exercise (lifting and 30 minutes of zone 5 cardio weekly).

    My appreciation for life has skyrocketed, I don't feel like I'm being oppressed by life, and my depression symptoms are gone. I used to think the root cause of it all was a pretty rough childhood. It turns out, it's just 'crap in, crap out.' It has been jarring to me that my inner experience and mental health could so drastically change in such a short amount of time.

    So yeah, it's anecdotal, but I'm pretty inclined to agree with this article.

    • stuffn an hour ago

      The gut-brain axis is highly influential in normal every day depression. It makes sense why you think this works for you.

      I workout vigorously 3-4 times a week, try to avoid the regular bad stuff with diet, etc. It doesn't stop the adrenaline dump from being in an abusive relationship for a number of years when there's a minor problem, and it doesn't stop me from randomly having my brain completely shut down when I (unfortunately) remember some aspects of my childhood.

      What has helped it CBT and time. The book in mention helped me understand why I feel the way I do, and that deeply rooted trauma (PTSD) exists as a misprogramming of your brain by a traumatic experience that is not "surface level" to trivially identify, and your brain is an excellent helper in compartmentalizing this for your own survival. Whether the information is wrong or right isn't what I care about. It's that it simply provided me a framework from which I could approach the problems I previously didn't really understand and led me on a journey of self discovery and bumpy healing I wouldn't have done otherwise. An inaccurate model is infinitely better than no model.

      The author of the substack does an excellent job at taking something that we barely understand (psychology has a lot of problems of reproducibility) and generalizing it into a bullshit youtube short tier soundbite of an article with less information than the book he claims is nonsense. Reading his other article for reference I would be suspect of the author's credibility in any aspect of science other than the dangers of inhaling your own farts.

      I especially the call back to another article of his that suggests that just loading up on exogenous testosterone is positively correlated with less PTSD. Funny enough I have had above-average testosterone through most of my life and yet I still managed to get a mild-to-medium form of PTSD.

  • skrebbel 2 hours ago

    Regardless of what you think of all this, you gotta appreciate the book title “The Body Does Not Keep the Score”.

  • vlan0 an hour ago

    I can see why someone might have that opinion. I think the author hasn't met himself yet. As one can only meet and understand another as deeply as they have met themselves. I do wonder if he would gain more awareness of his self after a couple 7g mushroom runs.

  • languagehacker 2 hours ago

    I thought The Body Keeps The Score was interesting and informative. I made sure to look up counterarguments afterwards, because there were definitely parts that I wasn't so keen on.

    Psychology and other social sciences are too multi-variate to speculate on, and the HRB exists so that we don't commit atrocities in the name of properly isolating variables as we poke at the black box we call the human mind. You're never going to get anything right, but we should definitely be referencing surveys of studies instead of single studies. So there's at least one point there for appropriate rigor. Not getting the interpretation of those studies right definitely seems unethical, but so does all of the misconduct stuff Van Der Kolk has been mired in.

    It's a disingenuous argument to say that your body doesn't change from a traumatic experience, or that stress doesn't express itself through the body sometimes. It's also problematic to say that because it happens to you doesn't mean you can't work through it and learn to manage it or even control it. What I gleaned from the book is that if I have a physical sensation that I can map to stress or a past experience of trauma, I can understand it, label it, and grow from it.

  • greygoo222 an hour ago

    The Body Keeps the Score is bullshit, but this Substack is even more bullshit. The author criticizes Bessel van der Kolk for failing to prove causation, and then writes this gibberish:

    "In the textbook Evolutionary Psychology, the authors explain that a particular hunter gatherer population isn’t as susceptible to PTSD despite being exposed to similarly tragic events. They argue that part of the physiological changes that come along with PTSD are increased inflammation in the body. Thus, the inflammatory nature of a standard western diet may make some people more susceptible to PTSD."

    "A 2020 study on Turkana warriors in Kenya found them to be much less likely to develop PTSD-related symptoms compared to US combat vets despite also experiencing gruesome acts in a war zone."

    Where is the proof that diet causes PTSD?

    • nearbuy 3 minutes ago

      He's relaying what the textbook he cited claimed. You'll have to check the textbook for their sources. Getting into the weeds about different theories for why various hunter-gatherer societies have lower rates of PTSD is rather off-topic for this blog post. They're just trying to raise a few counter-examples to trauma causing this dysfunction and suggest that unhealthy people or people with abnormal brain scans may be more susceptible to trauma. This would invalidate many of the arguments in The Body Keeps the Score.

    • mrguyorama 19 minutes ago

      There is nothing funnier about HN than the constant insistence that "The mainstream media is bad and lying to you" while voting random Substack and Medium writers with zero experience or training or authority to the front page.

      That goes together nicely with everyone on HN insisting that HN commenters are "special" and "different" from people on the rest of the internet. I guess because we are more likely to like the color orange?

      Most people insist they are above average drivers.

  • jrm4 3 hours ago

    Funny, I just recommended Antifragile by Nassim Taleb to my book club, and of course, that idea is pretty much the perfect foil to this.

    • kelseyfrog 2 hours ago

      airplane_with_red_dots.jpg

      • waldothedog 2 hours ago

        I get the ref, but not the link to anti-fragile or NNT. Help me out?

        • Benanov 2 hours ago

          As we know or a quick STFW will educate - the "airplane with red dots" refers to the idea that the planes that came back had damage indicated on them with red dots and so the initial idea was that the designers of the planes needed to armor those spots...

          When it was really the case that the spots that weren't damaged were the ones that actually needed to be armored, because the planes that took damage there didn't come back.

          In this case, the data that survived a selection process ("I just recommended this book that dovetails nicely") is the only data considered, when really all of the data needs to be considered.

          I'm seeing this as "you're reading the data wrong" or more accurately "you're barking up the wrong tree"

  • kouru225 an hour ago

    I haven’t read the book, but I’m almost always suspicious of criticism targeted at books like this. Let’s say I write a textbook about biology and I write the sentence:

    “The Mitochondria are the powerhouse of the cell”

    Technically what I’m saying is wrong. What the mitochondria does is so vast and confusing that no sentence like that can ever encompass its role. In fact, even using the word “role” is questionable because it presumes that the mitochondria’s sole function is to work as a team with other organelles/biological structures when in fact biology doesn’t really care about some abstract idea like “team.” All language is derived from analogy, and all analogies are insufficient to describe reality. In fact, mathematicians now agree that even math is an insufficient language. It can’t fully describe the territory. It can only make maps of it, and all maps are only useful because they are compressed and packaged versions of the territory. The question is just, “how much compression is useful?”

    We live in a world where science communication is so atrophied that the flat earth, and creationist theories are still in circulation. Scientists have dramatically failed to market their ideas to the masses, despite the fact that these ideas are inherently compelling. To me, the reason why they’ve failed seems obvious: because they’re so busy tearing down science communicators that none of them can ever get a real hold on the public. And why? Because the books they write are at compression level that the scientists arbitrarily deem irresponsible.

    This guy wrote a compelling story about the barrier between mind/body. To do that, he must have distributed a viral package of psychological terminology and concepts. It was then distributed to and consumed by millions of people. In all likelihood, the fact that they were excited by this book probably led them to read other books like it. They probably encountered conflicting ideas, questioned them, and looked them up. They probably have a much rounder understanding of these ideas now than they did when they first read them.

    Now this other guy writes a story and all it says is “yo that dude was wrong.” How helpful! How useful! And let’s be 100% clear: the person writing this isn’t communicating the absolute truth. They’re also compressing their ideas. In 100 years, I bet you any psychologist that reads both books will shake their head and point out all the flaws in their analogies. Meanwhile, the cycle continues: the scientists tear each other down and the masses continue sacrificing innocent children to appease the blood god.

  • AIorNot 2 hours ago

    What I’ve found is that the nature of viral movements (bestselling books, pseudoscience claims, self help, programming movements, architectures, social media phenomena etc) is that the truth or proof for the underlying claim of the viral movement is not important only its widespread virality and ability to spread

    Ie the idea has to be convincing enough to spread from person to person as a meme but also have enough armchair level depth to pass the bullshit filters of most reasonable people- ie popularity wins over truth

    Most people do not have the intellectual curiosity or time to deeply verify these claims - but inevitably these fads die as they appear..

    Clearly this is one example

    • kouru225 an hour ago

      Thomas Kuhn would say that the exact same thing happens in science literature.

  • blurbleblurble 2 hours ago

    The book might have some flaws but this article is flat out reactionary drivel.

    Example slop: https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ajgq!,w_1456,c_limit...

    What the research _actually_ suggests is something more like a combination of those pictures. Except that the scientific research isn't framed in terms of "bad behavior". So that alone should give you a clue about where this blog post is coming from.

    That image alone exposes the worldview of the person who wrote this, something like this:

    ~some people are good quality, some people are bad quality. if you're born as a bad quality person, it's something like bad luck / your fault for falling into bad behavior, no wonder you're struggling. you need to work harder but it might just be that you're a dud.~

  • yosito 2 hours ago

    Thank you for sharing this!

    I read The Body Keeps the Score about 10 years ago after experiencing a particularly traumatic event. I had been searching for answers at the time for how to heal from the event, and someone recommended the book to me.

    I had distilled my memory of the book into the intuitive idea represented by the title that the body remembers what happens to it which of course there is some truth to. So my first reaction to the headline was a bit defensive, "of course it's not bullshit!"

    But I had forgotten how much emphasis was put on there being significant lasting changes from events that we couldn't even remember.

    > The idea that trauma causes long-lasting damage to the brain and or body is central to van der Kolk’s thesis.

    > his narrative paints this hopeless picture of trauma victims as being people who most aspects of their lives are “dictated by the imprint of the past.”

    And now I remember that when I read the book originally looking for answers to my own traumas, it left me feeling hopeless, overwhelmed and permanently damaged from what I had gone through. I remember thinking that the high stress I was going through at the time was going to leave me permanently struggling with issues like high cortisol and inability to function normally. Absolutely NOT the message I needed at the time.

    Ten years on, my brain is normal and healthy, and I don't have any perceptible problems with cortisol or PTSD-like symptoms. I'm living a healthy, normal life, and not walking around with a heavy trauma score in my body.

    That's not to say that trauma from my past didn't play a role in making me who I am today, or that I don't still carry some memories of the difficult events. But I've found my brain to be very plastic and to heal and rewrite itself quite well. And all of the measurable markers of brain health, stress hormones, etc are fully back to normal, healthy ranges.

    That's just my anecdote, and I also appreciated the thorough scientific analysis in this article!

  • superb-owl 2 hours ago

    Probably true. Most mass-appeal science communication is bullshit.

    But TBKTS helped to bring "somatics"--the idea that physical and psychological issues are often interwoven--to the mainstream. There is very clear evidence that this is true [1], and underappreciated by a medical field that has a heavy bias toward specialists over generalists. How many people are experts in both gastroenterology and trauma? And yet we all know intuitively that stress and stomach problems go together.

    I'll always appreciate TBKTS for this, despite its flaws.

    [1] https://superbowl.substack.com/p/energy-healing-minus-the-no...

  • mef51 2 hours ago

    Trauma to me means there are ways of responding to painful experiences that can keep you in that painful state for a very long time, and/or make things worse. I recognize that simple fact from my own experiences. In that lens, its helpful to reflect on your responses to painful experiences to stop them from developing into long term traumas. Maybe that's why this book, or at least the title, seems to resonate with people. (I haven't read it)

    ...But it's also good to know the author of the book was wildly mis-citing things

  • renewiltord 2 hours ago

    This is a pretty good takedown. It seems that most pop psych these days is around trying to convert people to an external locus of control. It isn't "your fault". I can see why that's appealing to many, though it actually seems somewhat unappealing to me. I'd prefer to believe I have greater control over my own experience of the world. Even if I don't, I think acting as if I do allows me to bias on the side that's beneficial to me.

  • lazerwalker 2 hours ago

    This person takes specific claims from the book and tries to dispute them, while ignoring that the book’s number one big-picture idea of “trauma is unprocessed emotions and memories physically stored in the body” remains the conceptual grounding for all modern non-cognitive trauma processing methods like EMDR (which are clearly effective, even as we do not fully understand e.g. the neurological mechanism by which the adaptive information processing network functions). He then points you to an older article of his that is behind a paywall.

    I have my issues with van der Kolk’s work (I would personally not recommend The Body Keeps The Score to most people), but this is sloppy embarrassing clickbait.

  • sonofhans 2 hours ago

    Consider the source — the author appears to believe that trauma itself doesn’t truly exist, is not based on physical phenomena or experiences, and is largely a sales idea manufactured by the therapy industry.

    This article, and others, are riddled with rhetorical bullshit. E.g., someone on Instagram said that their emotionally distant father caused trauma, so “emotional distance” is added into the causes of trauma, and this is used to diminish the power of “trauma” itself.

    This is exactly as illuminating as a neurotypical arguing whether Tylenol or vaccines cause more Autism. The author’s only skin in the game is being provocative.

    • tredre3 2 hours ago

      > This is exactly as illuminating as a neurotypical arguing whether Tylenol or vaccines cause more Autism. The author’s only skin in the game is being provocative.

      Are you suggesting that only people afflicted with a condition should have the right to research it and look for its causes?

    • lotsofpulp 2 hours ago

      Are the claims of lack of supporting data false? They seem pretty specific and easy to verify.

  • imiric 2 hours ago

    Meh. I haven't read any of the books the article talks about, but IMO dismissing their entire premise is more unhelpful than any pseudoscientific claim they make.

    AFAICT, this is a pop psychology book that tries to make some interesting topics digestible to a mass audience. Topics that are mostly speculative to begin with, and don't have concrete evidence in any direction.

    For example, the entire field of epigenetics has been argued to be pseudoscience, and yet there has been some interesting research around it. Related to the topic of stress specifically, and how effects have been observed across generations[1].

    Clearly, more research is needed, but to dismiss it as quackery outright wouldn't be helpful. Many ideas that were initially perceived as outlandish eventually lead to a better understanding of the world. Scientific progress depends on people willing to go beyond the boundaries of conventional knowledge, often at the expense of their reputation.

    This reminds me of the uproar in archeology circles about the work of Graham Hancock. He presents himself as a journalist and author, and certainly not an archeologist or scientist, who simply raises some interesting questions about the past. His work is often dismissed as pseudoscientific quackery, which is funny to me since he never claims it to be scientific at all. It is edutainment content for a mass audience interested in these topics, nothing more than that.

    [1]: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10177343/

  • empath75 2 hours ago

    This blogger is a self-help youtuber hawking testosterone treatments and he's a Jordan Peterson acolyte that believes that DMT let's you speak with aliens.

  • fragmede 2 hours ago

    There's a lot of ad hominem it throws around, which doesn't really bolster the argument. It's a catchy headline but it all depends on who you know and what you talk to them about. There are a lot of fucked up, mal-adjusted people out there, and I should know, Because I'm one of them. But enough about me, nobody has a good sampling of the human experience. There are 8 billion humans alive, and there's no way to get a representational sampling of them in order to have an unbiased view of what humans are like. There's especially no way, because you're trapped in your own human body, which bases your experience of other people. Backpacking as a 21 year old woman is way different than backpacking as a 50 year old man. So the question is, has the book helped more per than it's harmed? I don't know. There are certainly people who read it and drew the wrong conclusions, but there are people who have used it to go on to lead healthy productive fulfilling lives. To reduce the entire work down into a single word, bullshit, is reductive to the point of uselessness. Of course that's the headline and the entire article doesn't won't fit up there. The article's author goes into much more detail but even if you don't like the work, calling it bullshit needs to engage more with what level of bullshittery it is and isn't for the review to come across as anything more than an highly motivated takedown because someone in the author's life used it against them.

  • hyperhello 3 hours ago

    Stoicism is the pole that you cannot control the world, but you can control your reactions to it. It's hard work.

    The other pole is that you cannot control your reactions, but you can try to control the world. This is much easier to fit into a consumerist framework.

    • bad_haircut72 2 hours ago

      A DNA molecule without an environment is just a glob of atoms. Information flows in both directions.

      On a purely human level though, you should go find some veterans with PTSD and tell them they're just not working hard enough at being stoic.

      • hyperhello 2 hours ago

        I never told any veterans to work harder at being stoic, nor did I imply anyone should. That's part of a reaction you had to what I said.

        I can't control what you say, but I can control my reaction to you. That's what stoicism is.

        • walkabout 2 hours ago

          Notably, Aurelius (at least—I’m less well-read on Epictetus and others) allows that there are automatic reactions that we can’t, realistically, control. It’s the unintentional, but controllable, maintenance of negative feelings that Stoics aim to consciously tamp down, mostly by breaking the habit of falling into those patterns of thinking in the first place. I think triggered feelings and reactions due to PTSD would tend to fall under the former, though surely a stoic approach might help reduce ongoing harm from those, as it does with more mundane things like being angry at other drivers on the highway. I mean, something in one’s attitudes and ways of thinking must be able help, and if not, guess we better stop bothering with therapy, so it’s not outlandish that stoic practice might improve even that kind of problem, though it may not be the right tool to attack the root of it.

          The idea that stoicism even aims to eliminate all negative emotions, or that it blames all of them on the person experiencing them, isn’t really what I’ve found.

          • j45 2 hours ago

            Aurelius' writings are interesting - I am struck by how many people try to relate to an emperor trying to stay grounded.

            It doesn't mean there isn't good in the writings, it's good to take the positive from things, with the hope that it doesn't let in any of the negative unintended.

            That part stands out to me though as where it's perspective might not be for the many, but the few.

            • walkabout an hour ago

              I mean, a bunch of his book is stoic epistemology, physics, and metaphysics, all of which is of dubious value. Anyone reading him is definitely going to be picking-and-choosing what they pay attention to, almost nobody today is going to go all-in on the entire edifice of the stoic system of philosophy, and nearly all readers are likely to disregard half or more of his book—as far as the pop-cultural life of the book, these large portions of it are practically invisible for a reason.

              I do think it’s remarkable that there’s much salvageable at all in it, given the age of the work (though a fair amount of ancient philosophy remains relevant, or at least functions as good reading and exercises along the lines of koans for developing philosophical ways of thinking, an awful lot is effectively obsolete and only of historical interest) and that it came from one of the most powerful people on the planet. It’s not often you get something with much enduring value at all from someone who also happens to be at or near the pinnacle of human hierarchies of their day.

              Though, in fairness, he’s mostly repackaging stuff he learned from others, it’s not exactly original thinking in the same way as the chain of works from Socrates-Plato-Aristotle, say.

              Still, it’d be like, I dunno, Franklin Roosevelt penning a philosophically-inclined self-help book that was still widely read and referenced beyond the year 3,000 and in languages that didn’t exist when it was written. Pretty distinctive, very few works at all in that class, and almost none from the perspective of someone that highly placed politically, despite a strong bias in general toward works from the rich and powerful being created at all, and surviving. I’d say the only way it’s likely to permanently fade is if/when “western culture”, to perhaps include near-east and Maghreb Muslim culture, fades (there’s so much overlap of the parts people like, with forms of thinking from the East, that I expect it’d have trouble co-existing with them in the same body of thought, as an actively-read item of interest)

        • Muromec 2 hours ago

          It's a good framework to survive in authoritarian country and maybe even a good one to promote as a dictator. You can in fact very often change what other people think, say and do.

          • walkabout 2 hours ago

            Stoicism specifies that one needs right acts, in addition to right thoughts. It’s far less passive than e.g. Russell (though I love Russell, and I even love The History of Western Philosophy in which he levels these criticisms, while many others seem to dismiss it) describes it, though treating it as purely an internal-mindset thing is certainly easier and I think a lot of people in-fact only apply those parts.

        • mbesto 2 hours ago

          > but I can control my reaction to you. That's what stoicism is.

          I think what the parent is saying is this:

          Say you (hyperhello) have PTSD from a fire incident in which your face is completely disfigured. You associated this pain (emotional and physical) with the various people who yelled "FIRE" during the escape. Do you, hyperhello, truly have control over this negative reaction when someone yells "FIRE!" in your face?

      • IncreasePosts 2 hours ago

        Is it your take that PTSD symptoms cannot be improved through any action of the individual?

        Is it your take that every person in therapy for PTSD so wasting their time?

        • monkeynotes 2 hours ago

          What if PTSD therapy focusses on accepting things you can't control and sitting with the pain? That's how I work through anxiety, and depression. I know it will never be gone, I don't try and set expectations to live without anxiety, I just try and sit with it, and accept it.

          Much of mental trauma is about acknowledging it, and learning to live with it. There is no cure for PTSD, even Ketamine is short acting, not a long term solution, and indeed Ketamine simply helps you sit with the suffering in a different light.

          • phkahler an hour ago

            >> There is no cure for PTSD...

            But there are treatments. Last I read exposure therapy and EMDR were the two main ones. I don't think I'd be a big fan of exposure until the reactions have been significantly reduced, but everyone is different. EMDR didn't do much for me, but Internal Family Systems did. CBT is also great for some people.

      • mobilene 2 hours ago

        Thank you.

    • nemomarx 2 hours ago

      Why are these presented as exclusive poles?

      In each case you should look at which one is easier to control and go for that. Why do you need a universal philosophy? Some things are self control, but some things are circumstances that you can navigate or avoid too.

      • burnished 2 hours ago

        Choosing to navigate or avoid negative stimulus is a choice you make about your behavior.

      • aaroninsf 2 hours ago

        It's not being offered as a dialectic model of reality,

        it's anchoring two points and providing a terrtain for analyzing consumer capitalism.

        With this frame in hand we can then ask questions like yours, "are there domains within which it is easier or more enjoyable or has higher personal or collective benefit, to work on the world rather than self?"

        The answer is certainly yes; agency is real, and we can work to maximize it.

        A convenient way to extend the "model" might be to tack on the "serenity prayer."

    • crazygringo 2 hours ago

      Stoicism is also another name for emotional repression and even developing a sense of emotional blindness.

      To be psychologically healthy, we need to listen to our emotions and process them in a healthy way.

      The answer is not to shut down our emotions, or to blindly give in to them, but rather to understand where they're coming from and process them accordingly.

      • anechouapechou an hour ago

        This is a very common misconception. Stoics (at least in the classical sense, which is what I study) seek to classify their emotions as either positive or as passions. And through the analysis of their own opinions, using logic and the concept of aligning with nature and the common good, they seek to agree with what is correct, disagree with what is incorrect, and suspend judgment on that which is not evident. A person can only be good or bad through actions that are their own responsibility; therefore, things outside of their own responsibility (such as a Stoic's son dying) cannot make them either good or bad, but rather their reaction to the event can. The interpretation that if a Stoic suffers when experiencing the death of their own son, they are being a bad Stoic is actually completely incorrect. They will only be a bad Stoic if, from this event, they allow themselves to be carried away by the suffering that is natural to every person who has a natural affection, and start to have opinions and actions contrary to nature.

        • crazygringo an hour ago

          I'm going to push back on the idea that it's a misconception.

          Stoicism treats the (negative) passions as necessarily grounded in false beliefs.

          Whereas modern psychology treats our negative emotions as valuable messages that something is affecting our well-being and needs to be addressed.

          Stoicism treats negative emotions as errors. Something to be reasoned away, i.e. suppressed. Modern psychology tells us not to reason away but rather to feel fully, to accept, to process and therefore integrate and grow.

          • anechouapechou 42 minutes ago

            Modern psychology (CBT) is built on a Stoic idea: “It’s not things that upset us, but our opinions about things.”

            Stoicism doesn’t tell you to repress feelings. It tells you to examine them, to look at the beliefs behind them. If the belief is false (“this event ruins my life”), you correct it; if it’s true, you accept the feeling without letting it take over.

            The Stoics called destructive emotions “passions,” but they also recognized healthy ones, like rational joy, caution, and goodwill. The goal isn’t emotional numbness, it’s clarity and alignment with reason and nature.

            So, far from emotional blindness, Stoicism actually inspired the same kind of introspection that modern psychology promotes, just with a different vocabulary.

            I would encourage you to read about CBT’s history and it’s influence on more modern psychology techniques. It’s likely that you are representing the Stoicism you commonly read about these days, on reddit, youtube and even on some books that take some liberties on translating it or do a bad job of it (it’s hard…). Most modern sources absolutely suck. A good translation from the original greek sources of Epictetus is very hard to come by.

            • crazygringo 14 minutes ago

              Modern psychology is not CBT. In fact, CBT is widely criticized by psychologists as treating symptoms rather than causes. It's a favorite of health plans because it's short and cheap, not because it's best at helping people long-term. Some of the criticisms of Stoicism are also criticisms of CBT.

              What I'm talking about is traditional psychodynamic therapy that is about integration and growth. Not about changing behavioral patterns merely on the surface via cognitive reframing. When you actually allow yourself to integrate and process your emotions, the kind of mental work that stoicism and CBT focus on becomes unnecessary for most people. (CBT techniques can be helpful as a kind as urgent emergency measures, but not as a long-term solution.)

              I know you seem to think I've gotten my ideas from Reddit. I can assure you, I've studied this stuff extensively both from the psychology and therapeutic sides of the literature. I've even written, critiquing Seneca's On Anger. I'm not operating from some pop understanding here.

    • DaveZale 2 hours ago

      https://classics.mit.edu/Epictetus/epicench.html

      It's proactive introspection. Stoicism can provide freedom because you can be master of yourself.

      Not to say that epigenetic effects aren't real.

  • lotsofpulp 2 hours ago

    It's safe to assume any grand claims linking specific behavior and the brain are bullshit. Humans don't have the technology yet to make the necessary observations.

    • rusk 2 hours ago

      F-MRI

      • lotsofpulp 2 hours ago

        F-MRIs are not going to give you enough data to cleanly determine cause and effect. I'm sure there is lots of good data for researchers, but I don't think it's going to be easily package-able into these kind of pop psychology books.

  • luxuryballs 2 hours ago

    citing a paper that says it found “no evidence” of something always seems weak to me in terms of refuting something, I also found no evidence by doing nothing, how do I know the thing you checked or the context in which it was checked is any better than my doing nothing?

    not finding something doesn’t seem any more or less convincing…

    • maxbond an hour ago

      > [H]ow do I know the thing you checked or the context in which it was checked is any better than my doing nothing?

      Open the paper and look for it's methodology.

    • darth_avocado 2 hours ago

      I claim I am god. Pretty much everyone who knows me suggested there’s no evidence of me being god. Would you say not finding that I’m god doesn’t seem any more or less convincing?

    • andai 2 hours ago

      I think it's called "absence of evidence is not evidence of absence" ?

      • esafak 2 hours ago

        It is, though. What it is not, is proof of absence.

  • hiddencost 2 hours ago

    Van der Kolk lost his job due to pretty extensive sexual misconduct, so I think he's a pretty poor person to hold up as a hero.

    That said, this article is just as bad as the book.

    Of course there are massive and complex feedback loops between the brain and the body.

    Trying to distill it to only one thing in one direction is kinda absurd.

    I encourage folks to get more massages if they doubt that there's any causal relationship between these phenomena.

    • nicklaf 2 hours ago

      > Van der Kolk lost his job due to pretty extensive sexual misconduct, so I think he's a pretty poor person to hold up as a hero.

      I was curious about this accusation, so I read a bit about the scandal. [0]

      It seems you are actually talking about Joseph Spinazzola, the executive director of Van der Kolk's trauma center, who was fired for sexual misconduct while Van der Kolk was on sabbatical. Van der Kolk was fired two months later, not for sexual misconduct, but for denigrating and bullying employees.

      [0] https://www.boston.com/news/local-news/2018/03/07/allegation...

    • cwmoore an hour ago

      “Of course there are massive and complex feedback loops between the brain and the body.

      Trying to distill it to only one thing in one direction is kinda absurd.”

      The relevant parts are good.

    • frereubu 2 hours ago

      Can you give a source for the claim of "extensive sexual misconduct"? I've seen allegations of bullying, which is clearly bad enough, but nothing sexual.

  • hollerith 3 hours ago

    Psychological trauma is one of the more complicated aspects of the human condition.

    Because such claims are so hard to verify and so rhetorically potent, I would be in favor of a rule that claims of having been traumatized cannot be presented as evidence in court.

    • freejazz 2 hours ago

      Do you ever litigate torts? Being 'traumatized' is not a legal claim to which simply stating 'I was traumatized' serves as any evidence, so I'm not sure what it is you think you'd be sparing the world. It is obviously the case that anyone could testify regarding the facts of what happened that caused what they believed to be trauma, but I'm not sure where you got the idea that people simply say "I was traumatized" and then win a civil case or send someone to jail.

      • hollerith 2 hours ago

        The rule I propose would disallow not only unsubstantiated claims, but also any argumentation or evidence that tries to substantiate the claim (including testimony by expert witnesses in my ideal the version of the rule) in legal proceedings.

        For example, the rule would not disallow "I was almost killed by the defendant's reckless action" and would not disallow "the defendant's attack put me fear for my life", but it would disallow, "and one of the effects of that experience was psychological trauma".

        • freejazz an hour ago

          Where do courts allow unsubstantiated claims?

          >but also any argumentation or evidence that tries to substantiate the claim (including testimony by expert witnesses in my ideal the version of the rule) in legal proceedings.

          So you wont also let people substantiate claims? What??

          >For example, the rule would not disallow "I was almost killed by the defendant's reckless action" and would not disallow "the defendant's attack put me fear for my life", but it would disallow, "and one of the effects of that experience was psychological trauma".

          Have you ever been involved in such a lawsuit, out of curiosity?

          The intentional infliction of emotional distress has long been recognized as a tort. You have to substantiate it, of course.

  • teekert an hour ago

    I’m a scientist. I haven’t read “the body keeps the score”. It sounds like pseudoscience.

    But, I do recognize the importance of models. Our brains are complex, lacking the capacity to comprehend everything, we make models. Models are incomplete (by definition) and often false. But can still be very useful. Or very useful to some. Where useful means: help someone lead a more fulfilling, better life.

    So I try not to judge. Even though I try to seek truth. To be a scientist. I know there are useful models out there.

  • theothertimcook 2 hours ago

    Kolk was involved in the “memory wars” and repressed memory drama back in the day where people started therapy then suddenly remembered historical abuse by caregivers that in many cases never actually happened (this is a massive simplification DYOR)

    Having been involved in the publishing of psychology research I have zero faith in the systems ability to properly control for bullshit.

    Trauma informed muppets like Kolk and Gabor Mate are running around spouting absolute bullshit and it’s hurting people, imagine being raised by a parent who read and believed this bullshit, worse still they’ve been to talks by flops like Gabor Mate and are balls deep in whatever viral self help podcast meme is trending…let them

    Kolk wrote the article the body keeps the score in 1994 at the height of the memory wars, he spent the next 20 years undeterred, developing and spreading his bullshit and now nearly 30 years later it’s still being talked about and propagated.

    https://greyfaction.org/resources/grey-faction-reports/alleg...

  • bobbyprograms 3 hours ago

    Haha yeah my wife used to use that always as a nice way to explain why she should be able to punish me at all times for all my “failures”. Lol

    • all2 2 hours ago

      Oof. I'm seeing lots of issues packed into this. You need good counseling. Not marriage counseling (that's a scam in most cases), but individual counseling. Even just a bro to talk to while you turn wrenches or heft iron. Just find a guy who is older than you, married, and well adjusted and talk to him. I can make some recommendations on where to find men like this, if you would like.

  • PaulKeeble 2 hours ago

    Most of psychology doesn't survive past 20 years, the moment someone tries to replicate the results it fails. A lot of the fraud that is happening in medical science at the moment is in Psychology, their methods are unsound and they build entire diseases on foundations made of sand. They repeatedly get caught misrepresenting referenced papers by reviewers but the journals fail to enforce integrity and scientific principles.

    People should be very sceptical of any psychological findings that are younger than about 30 years and ideally you want to have seen several replications and done with greater size, rigour and controls. Anything younger than this and certainly anything that hasn't yet been firmly replicated is on balance of probability going to turn out to be wrong or fraud.

    • tredre3 2 hours ago

      Psychology (and psychiatry) is good enough at finding patterns in the symptoms patients go through, and grouping them into so-called disorders. It's not perfect, but it's a useful tool.

      What they are not good at is all the rest: explaining what causes those symptoms in the first place, and how to treat them in the second place. And this isn't something that has changed in the past 30 yrs.

      This phenomenon is also not exclusive to soft sciences. Humans (especially domain experts) just really really hate admitting "we don't know."

  • hrimfaxi 3 hours ago

    > Chances are, you’ve heard of The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk. At 79,898 reviews, the book has more reviews on Amazon than the first book of A Game of Thrones.

    > “The Body Keeps the Score has spent 248 weeks on the New York Times paperback-nonfiction best-seller list and counting. To date, it’s sold 3 million copies and been translated into 37 languages.”

    Wow 3 million copies despite being translated into 37 languages? The Game of Thrones finale had 19 million viewers. I don't know anyone who has heard of this book and even if all of the 3 million copies were sold to Americans, only 1 in 11 of them would have heard of it.

    • justin66 2 hours ago

      > I don't know anyone who has heard of this book

      I can't imagine polling everyone I know about a specific book. How does that work?

    • jerlam 2 hours ago

      Also, why would the number of Amazon reviews be a valid metric for popularity? Game of Thrones came out almost 30 years ago. People who bought and read the book probably didn't buy it from Amazon and aren't going to write a review for it now.

    • Pet_Ant 2 hours ago

      That's funny because I swear almost every woman in my life has read it or at least knows enough to reference it. Even women who are from different walks of life and don't know eachother.

      • ndriscoll 2 hours ago

        There are ~130 million US households, so if each copy were bought by a unique household and all 3 million copies were sold in the US, that would mean ~97.5% of US households don't have a copy. Maybe there's some huge multiplier on borrowing from libraries? Personally I've never heard of it, but it seems like it's pretty far outside of my bubble of interests.

        • throwup238 2 hours ago

          Then a hundred Instagram and TikTok influencers make videos about the book.

          Reading is at an all time low in the US, the majority of people who have heard of this book probably haven't read a single sentence of it. It's mostly coming from social media content about the book.